Why Girls Like Drama

Geplaatst op 12-06-2024

Categorie: Lifestyle

Oftentimes a relationship is progressing just fine, with both partners happy and looking forward to continuing the relationship. Then, out of nowhere, your girlfriend gets some crazy idea in her head that you are cheating, or don’t love her any more, or don’t find her attractive. And boy, will she let you know. Or, maybe she won’t. Maybe she’ll just get quiet and refuse to tell you what’s bothering her. Wait, what just happened? Does she really think these things are true? Well, sort of. Women have long been stereotyped as drama-creating creatures. Bad news, guys: turns out, women actually like drama! There are a lot of reasons that this is the case.

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First, women create drama in order to reassure themselves that you really like her. This stems from a lack of self-confidence. These are the instances in which a woman will accuse you of thinking another woman is more attractive than her, or that you don’t love her any more. In order to counteract this, you must make certain that she feels secure in the relationship. Talk with her frequently about her feelings, and, of course, yours. Without open communication, drama is sure to creep into a relationship. Another way to deal with this type of drama is to ask her specifically what is bothering her and why she does not feel secure with your relationship. This will force her to talk with you, rather than creating drama.


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Another reason women create drama is to put men to the test. Women will complain about things such as not going on a date recently, or going to the same place all the time, and then refuse to offer an opinion about where to go or what to do. This is their way of testing you. Do you really understand them? Do you know what they like to do? Again, this generally stems from a sense of insecurity and an inability to communicate effectively.

Yet another reason that women create drama is that they like to play the “damsel in distress” part. Unfortunately, guys, you fall for this one almost every time. You’ve experienced this one before. All of a sudden, out of the blue, she’s upset because she doesn’t feel attractive, or you didn’t kiss her goodbye when you left in the morning, or she doesn’t feel like any of her friends love her! And all of a sudden, the tears start falling. Who doesn’t like to help out someone in need? Wisen up, men: in these instances, no one is in need! Women are just creating a fictitious problem so that someone will act like they care! The more you respond to these types of situations, the more often she will do this to you. The best thing you can do when your girlfriend pulls the damsel in distress act is to just ignore it (tactfully, of course).

As you can see, the ultimate reason that girls like drama is because they like the attention! It seems as though the only way to counteract this need for constant attention and reassurance is to proactively give her lots of attention!